#WHAT HAPPENED TO JOE BUDDEN AND TAHIRY HOW TO#
People go on reality shows and have no idea how to truly leverage the position in order to create generational wealth. If me and my man were on a reality show, we would both be millionaires. Tahiry, Megan Thee Stallion, Jennifer Williams, and many other black women are living the storylines of victimhood because no one has shown them how to see their way out.įor those of you who would like to own your power and learn how to be a more feminine woman who has healthy relationships with men CLICK HERE to get my new book, You Can’t Force A Man To Value You, Becoming A High Value Woman & Attracting Your Dream Man.” But women knowing their truths has been moving black women forward in the past few years.
Sugarcoating things and women not take self-accountability hasn’t helped in the past century.
But just know that complaining people like you DO NOT move the race forward. Now, drop your complaints about this truth that I just spilled down in the comments somewhere. If you give a man masculine behavior he will treat you like a man and be ready to fight. But black women once again, have to take responsibility for displaying such forms of masculine behavior. Now, YES, VADO was wrong for putting his hands on her. Instead of trying to build a bear and talking crazy to him, because the suit doesn’t fit. Oftentimes black men do manhandle black women, don’t open doors for her, don’t bring her flowers and don’t know how to sweet talk her, and take her kindness for weakness, so she often displays masculine behaviors in order to defend herself.Īt some point a black woman has to DECIDE that she is only going to deal with men who nurture her femininity and already are the man she dreams of. But if you get with most men when they are not already winning in life, they will resent you for being with them.Ħ. Strong women must know themselves and get a man who is emotionally even stronger who won’t always be triggered by her mouthpiece.ħ. Yet she doesn’t actually want to lower her standards or lifestyle, there she EXPECTS him to rise to meet hers. SURE, she may even tell him that in the beginning and he will still pursue and she will give in. It’s unfair to a man for a woman to be with him, knowing she wants a wealthy man. Stop listening to society telling you what you can’t do. So they want a man to BE MORE, AND DO MORE, and put pressure on him to do so. Black women tend to settle for less and feel that there is a scarcity when it comes to men. When you get with a man who is less than what you desire, you’re going to be HIGHLY disappointed in him off top, because chances are he also won’t treat you like the Queen you see yourself as.ĥ. If you want to inspire a man to do something, talking sh*t to him may work, but it’s also going to make him hate you. What I am saying is that Tahiry still has the same frequency she had when she was with Joe.Ĥ. I’m not even saying that a good portion of black men quite naturally display violence towards black women in general. I am not saying rappers are abusive or that they don’t value black women. Tahiry’s ex Joe Budden was a rapper and now she’s moved on to another rapper. She SETTLED for Vado and in her mind loves him DESPITE him not having major dough.ģ. Tahiry is not only used to men with money, but she wants a man with money. Vado is a 35-year-old man still trying to make it as a rapper.Ģ. Not to mention the way she said it is completely masculine behavior.īut we’re not here to bash Tahiry, who already said that NONE of this is for show. Talking about a man’s lack of finances is one of the most emasculating things a woman can do to a man. Now let’s take this back a second when Tahiry called VADO one of the brokest guys she’s ever been with.
Now CLEARLY that is the sign of an abusive man, who later claimed he didn’t put his hands on her. We’re going to do everything we can to make it right 🙏🏾🙏🏾 #HipHopBootCamp /69s3F3zuep The same Tahiry that was getting her azz whooped by Joe Budden 7-years-ago, Here is something about black women, that’s about to offend some more sensitive people who don’t care if the race stays in broken, toxic or abusive relationships for the rest of their lives: Black women often act masculine AF.
Honest as a person who has been in 2 abusive relationships. Next for those who think I’m insensitive. You are responsible for your own reactions. Stop being a simple minded b*tch who gets triggered all the time, even by perfect strangers. I know some of you, who I won’t call victims or low-intelligence beings, already want to fight me over the blog title.